For couples who want to understand each other
Talk about what is hardest to talk about.
Tacitavia helps you understand your own desires, including the hidden ones – and turns them into shared experiences in the couples app. Less frustration, more closeness, better flow in your relationship.
“We do not know who you are – your answers cannot be linked to your email or name.”
How we protect your privacy →How it works
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Questionnaire
You go through areas of intimacy from the very basics. Where you say “no”, we do not ask further.
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Profile
You immediately see your profile: what excites you, what holds you back and how to talk about it with your partner.
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Couples app
Transfer your profile to the app with a QR code. It suggests experiences only where your desires meet.
What you get
Right after the questionnaire you see your free profile. This is what it looks like:
Your type
Slow burn
You warm up slowly but without unnecessary brakes – once you are in the mood, you enjoy it fully.
One of four types
Based on your accelerator and brake – how easily desire comes and what holds it back.
Spark
You get excited easily and rarely hold back – desire comes quickly and likes to be led.
Careful flame
Your desire is strong, but worries can quickly dampen it – you need to feel safe.
Slow burn
You warm up slowly but without unnecessary brakes – once you are in the mood, you enjoy it fully.
Safe harbour
Desire comes gradually and worries easily drown it out – you feel best in security and closeness.
Want to go deeper?
The extended profile adds 12 chapters: a map of your desire and a body map, your archetypes explained, your ideal evening, your limits, how to talk to your partner, a plan for the first 7 days and a designed PDF.
See what is included →Privacy first
Your email and your answers are stored in two separate databases. They cannot be linked without a secret key.
Your partner never sees your answers or your “no” – the app suggests only what you both want.
Photos of toys and personal notes stay on your phone only.
No third-party advertising or tracking scripts.
Start for free
The questionnaire and the basic profile are free. The extended profile and premium app features are paid.